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Jason's avatar

Indeed. Our society is engulfed in advertising that convinces us we will be better off with this product or this pair of pants. Some of the new products can be very useful. We need to practice “delayed gratification” in order to become free from debt and stop comparing ourselves to our neighbor.

I would be interested to see pics of you and your family dressed properly for your religious group, if it’s not to uncomfortable

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Hi Liya, I read this with great interest because my dad grew up in an Apostolic faith that had many similarities to what you described. I wrote a little bit about it in an article called Belonging and Identity. I grew up in a farming community with hundreds of cousins around us, but my family didn't join that church (I visited a few times when I was young, and later in life for funerals or other special events), so I didn't feel a sense of belonging. I'm grateful that I didn't grow up in a legalistic setting like this. My faith has been something very real to me, and it's still very central to my life. But it's a relationship with Christ, not the trappings of a religion, that has been so transformative to me. Just wanted to say I can understand how these early experiences/teaching would have impacted you. Sometimes my cousins leave the stricter faith of their parents and listening to them talk about discovering the wonder and beauty of God's grace and love has always been a joy to me. When all they knew was legalism and the threat of condemnation, it's no wonder they felt like rebelling. I personally do believe the Bible is living and active and my beliefs have formed as I have studied His word. But the Savior who changed my life and gave me hope calls me Friend (John 15) and His banner over me is love. I don't have to perform to earn His love. I simply need to accept the free gift of His grace. I'm not seeking to convince you of anything, just sharing how my own beliefs came to be a joyful part of my inner life and a huge source of strength and joy. Very happy to read your work today. Thanks for sharing your background and how this has impacted you.

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